LOVE for Blogging and ROMANCING with Bloggers
“Love is involuntary…”
“Romance is voluntary…”
These two profound statements entails enough stuff to stimulate our private thoughts for a scintillating public discourse, and while doing so, we are greatly susceptible, and are bound to go out of course as we are dealing with the “sense of love” and the “sensibility of romance”, though we are genuinely attempting to do so with the subject without any “pride and prejudice…”
Making sense of love, defies the contours of common sense.
Breaking the pride to build the space for romance is defining.
This four letter word “LOVE” is such a beautiful world, as if it is the world and imagining the world of emotion without the word love is catharsis, and involuntarily, we are all in mythical enticement by the world of love. In its purity, it is perhaps the most powerful force that binds the humanity, and the moment it gets diluted with a tinge of impurity unlike the gold where alloys has a binding glue to brighten the bondage of glamour in ornament, here in, alloying the human relationship it surreptitiously losses it’s glitter.
Romantic love to passionate love to obsessive love to lustful love, it’s the slider, then the word “love” gets the dreadful name where the incriminating interplay interjects the symphony and the harmony of poise, purity and passion is in impulsive disarray.
There is a history and a geography that defines us as human being and our existence. The world of humanity is also a world of relationships. It has the force of love and the course of romance to reach its colorful composition and musical manifestation. The world of artistic people is a world full of romance.
Any IDEA can become fragile the moment we start trimming the wings and limit the swing it had inherited during its genesis.
There is an intrinsic value that has its root at the inception of an idea and we should protect that umbilical cord to get the constant feed without the filters, to nurture and nourish with all its beauty and bounty that was with a deeper purpose bestowed at its conception.
The idea of romance is no exception.
Romance is where love begins and it is physicality of love that it gets romance its bad name…the genesis of romance was never designed to define only the physical engagement of human relationship. But it has conjured the predominate part, there is no dispute that it is a skewed and it is a perception, time has come to change that perception with a new perspective…
And here lies the fault line where it has kept many other forms of relationship apart, and that is most sad part of the tale of romantic relationship.
And here lies the fault line where it has kept many other forms of relationship apart, and that is most sad part of the tale of romantic relationship. Click To Tweet
The idea of “ROMANCE” has got haplessly entangled in the contours of physical world and between two physical bodies, and over the period it has been stifled in the structure of physical engagement. It is high time to unshackle the beauty of romance from the physical clutches, and broaden its emotional rendezvous and widen the powerful idea of romance; otherwise it may well get strangulated to death.
The idea of romance limited to two people in love is myopic in its outlook and repressively restrictive in entirety. Though the definition of romance is a pleasant little feeling in our relationship, and that very feelings accrue multiple manifestations and we crave for it and cherish those moments which are magical in its avatar.
This part of relationship provides us with excitement and adventurism.
This part of the relationship provides us the flare for passion and the glare for possession.
We need to learn the art of blending and craft of balancing in nurturing relationship.
Romance by very nature is a creative composition of the human relationship and it is not merely an expression of only emotion but an engagement of intellect.
There is so much in romance that one can discover the potent creativity that is either in hibernation or had never got the wings to fly, there is serendipity, romantic people are fundamentally creative in nature, vice-versa, and creative people are treasure-house of unbridled romance.
It is just that they happen to choose one such motion towards creative endeavor to unleash this very facet of emotions.
BLOGGERS are creative people and they are intuitively expressing their romance through the magical platform called blogging. They are breaking the barriers and are playing the significant role of broadening the horizon of romance beyond the physical place and making it digitally relevance. It has a strong resonance.
Today, we live more of our life in the digital world than in the real world.
It is a cliché to state the obvious.
The connotation of romance needs to undergo a metamorphosis.
Romance is essentially a fascinating aspect of freedom. Ironically, romance has become imprisoned in the physical dimension of relationship, between two persons and between the opposite genders.
In essence this interpretation of romance has taken the pulsating fizz out of the very idea of romance, and how it has evolved and established its place in the different rooms of human relationships.
BLOGGING is all about expression and engagement, and in the process it enables a beautiful relationship. And where, there is relationship there has to be room for romance, and it is not a stretched extension of the literal definition of romance…it is real romance in the virtual realm. In this very dichotomy between real and virtual is where the art of romance gets the heart of living a loving life.
The quintessential question…how on earth on this digital universe we all connect with others, apparently have no common ground on most fronts except the thought that is intangible and needs time to fructify, we do connect, when we have never met in person and in most cases will never ever meet even after a flourishing digital relationship but it have all the necessary ingredients of the profound idea of romance i.e. building a spectacular relationship that goes beyond the connotation of conventional definition.
Romancing in the digital space and bloggers are an epitome of virtual romance that has so much to offer to a relationship that is beyond the physical confinement and the geographical boundaries.
Romancing in the digital space and bloggers are an epitome of virtual romance that has so much to offer to a relationship that is beyond the physical confinement and the geographical boundaries. Click To Tweet
The idea of romance has got do to so much with relationship and the relationship needs to recast its canvas, and the canvas has broaden its place of operation and spread its wings across the digital space and the relationship as blogger has with the platform and with the community.
It is nothing short of romance.
It has a tale to tell.
There is a deep and strong emotional desire by every blogger to express one’s profound thoughts on the passion that one possess and converse with other bloggers creatively and create a space for a much more meaningful engagement.
ROMANCE to get its due, it needs long-term commitment. Needles to say, it needs dedication, it needs perseverance. Blogger are committed to the cause of connecting and collaborating. They work doggedly with purpose and they have to do so for a long period of time to be recognized in the blogosphere and get the kind of response they all well deserve, and once they start reciprocating with honesty and harmony…one experiences the true romance with blogging relationship.
“There is trust.”
“There is respect.”
“There is sharing.”
“There is caring.”
True romance entails every bit of these aspects of human engagement beyond the boundaries of physical world and conventional composition.
Romance is a mystical force that makes one connected in a profound way with someone and that someone could be any one, and here in the blogosphere it is the blogger.
Romance is a feeling, it is gesture, it is an expression, and it is a conversation.
And the way bloggers converse on diverse subjects with each other with such dissection and providing denotation to deeper thoughts is no less than a romantic voyage, in fact it literally transcend the physical boundary which has impetuously narrowed the all-encompass space of romance in human relationship. Romance has a larger canvas where we need to embrace the diverse colors of kindness to affection to generosity to empathy to appreciation…
In the physical world there is always this debate of man’s idea of romance vs. the woman’s idea of romance, and this infuses prejudices into the eye of romance, it appears deceptively jaundiced that gets squarely dismantled in the virtual world where the idea of romance for a blogger is same and there is no gender disparity.
Every blogger “loves expression” and the “romantic conversation” that follows give a lasting impression, and the conversation to stay the course of consistency needs the potent power of creative engagement.
Unless there is a proportional ingredient of the overwhelming essence of joy, happiness, pleasure and progress, it has the vulnerability of turning stale and we may be staring at a stalemate scenario.
Much like the real world, where it need rejuvenation, here also it is no exception, and one need to keep rekindling the source of romance in the virtual world of blogging, we need to keep ourselves rediscovering every time we feel we are stuck…it’s only through our creativity, and imagination we can keep our inspiration high and not get trapped in a state of dryness.
The holistic aspiration of leading an eternal romantic life where “age and stage” has nothing to do as romance in virtual world is in the “thoughts and mind”, yes we need to be mindful of our conversations and consciously keep out of the confinement of the physical dimension of romantic relationships.
Love is all-pervading in the virtual world of blogosphere, as has been the case in the real world and the compelling power of romancing the virtual space makes the voyage of blogging a fascinating tale to narrate in the real world…
Bloggers are passionately romantic at heart and that’s how they are making the art of blogging reach newer heights.
Kudos to Blogging Community and Cheers to the Mojo of Bloggers.
HAPPY VALENTINES DAY TO ALL MY LOVING BLOGGER FRIENDS!!!